also, The Brain That Changes Itself, and The Talent Code. 
this is my triumvirate for brain-fixing. you remember in college you said to me--you really ended up much more well-adjusted than you should be. well, the cha-rahde is over. i am going to the cave for the holidays, go into [asian] robot-mode and total-immmersion-style reading any/all cheezy/sciency books (with highlighter pens) ---will take any recommendations. (actually, will NOT read any "dr" wayne dyer, any other fake drs, like "dr" phil--eww can he just go away)
